Welcome to Our Kink Compatibility Quiz!
Welcome to our Kink Quiz Comparison Tool, where you and your partner can explore your levels of interest in various kink categories. Discover past experiences, curiosities, and boundaries together in a fun and open way!
This tool is a questionnaire designed for you and your partner to discover common carnal ground. Each of you will go through the questions and scenarios, answering yes, no, or maybe while your partner does the same. What you'll hopefully discover at the end is an honest yet kind disclosure of things that are a GO, activities that may be fun to think about but maybe one or both of you need time and a conversation before actively exploring, and things that are a HARD no thanks. The intention is to promote a conversation about sex and sexuality that will help you learn and maybe even make you more curious about your needs and the needs of your partner(s).
Rules:
No Kink Shaming. This exercise is about expanding what you know about your partner and about yourself. This should go without saying but each of you should feel like there is a safe space to be vulnerable with your partner. If you have any doubts that something you find erotic and appealing won't be well-received by your partner, maybe go with the option that hides results where respondents have disagreed.
This is not a diagnostic tool. Enter into this exercise in good faith. This is not intended to trap your partner in a "Gotcha!" moment.
Feel free to use this tool more than once! Our sexual identities can be fluid and things we liked in the beginning may not be appealing anymore. Likewise, things that were once a hard no can be a little more accessible as we get more comfortable with our partners. Let your understanding of sexual agreements be as flexible as you need them to be.